Seriously. Don't do it. Don't ever hope for anything good in your life. It just won't happen. Oh, it will look like it will, but then at the most gut wrenching time, your dreams will be crushed.
And those patterns to relationships you thought you both outgrew? Pffft. Of course you didn't. It just seemed like you did so that when they finally reappear, it is at the worst possible time, and pretty much guarantees that said relationship is irreparable.
If you look to the left, you will see a sad woman.